Thyme In Massage Chicago LLC works with patients dealing with trauma, PTSD and grief as I went through a few life events where I realized how effective massage therapy and acupuncture are with the healing process. Below are two stories that shaped how I shifted the business's focus to work with those wanting to use holistic means to heal. Your feelings are valid and I'm here to help.
FIRST STORY
I was pregnant with my first child in 2021 and had a wonderful pregnancy. Monthly massages helped regulate stress from acupuncture school and life and acupuncture helped with minor aches as my body changed. However, due to my advanced age, my doctor decided to induce me instead of wait for my labor to naturally occur. I went in, was given pitocin and waited and waited and waited. I had no concept of time and 36 hours had passed quickly in my mind. I had not dilated past 4cm and no more pitocin could be given. While all vitals looked normal, the decision to do a Cesarean section was made. It was not an emergency, so I wasn't rushed, but I still had to go over all the paperwork and liabilities and sign at the bottom. This was major abdominal surgery after all. My ex-husband was in the room with me as they made their way through the many levels to my uterus. Around 4A, my baby was delivered, healthy and taken away. They lifted her over the drape so I could see her, but I would not physically touch her for the first time until around 10A. No bonding on my chest. No warm moments. They quickly put me back together as I was losing a lot of blood and I later found out I was dangerously close to needing a blood transfusion. I tell this story because I want others to know that even though that was in 2021, I still have moments where I cry at the thought of not being able to touch my child for hours. Trauma lives within us, but with consistent acupuncture and massage therapy, I can help your mind and body heal. I want to provide a space for you to heal and grow.
Check out the 7 layers of a Cesarean Section (NON GRAPHIC)
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/HT7EFb3kTxk
This a non-graphic written description of Cesarean Section
https://www.awakepelvichealth.com/blog/anatomy-of-a-c-section
Source: Awake Pelvic Health and Wellness
SECOND STORY
In early 2024, I became pregnant with my second child. Just six weeks later, after using the restroom, I saw blood on the toilet paper and immediately understood the implications. Once it was confirmed that no heartbeat was detected, I opted for acupuncture to aid in the expulsion of the fetus and uterine tissue from my body, rather than undergoing a D and C (dilation and curettage) procedure. This decision was largely influenced by concerns about bleeding out and the need for a blood transfusion, especially since my first child was born via Cesarean section. I engaged in two months of continuous acupuncture which ultimately allowed me to move through this experience and be cleared to try for pregnancy again.
Unfortunately, my postpartum emotions returned with intense rage, causing me to lash out at my partner and daughter over trivial matters. I felt guilt for my anger, compounded by the stress of acupuncture studies, managing my business, and the challenges of potty training a two-year-old with limited support. Despite begging my partner for assistance, the help I received was often unhelpful, intensifying my frustration. Eventually, a series of life events led me to seek talk therapy, which provided me with the tools to improve my situation.
While I did not pursue acupuncture during this time, I turned to regular massage therapy to relieve the muscular tension related to my grief, anxiety, and emotional imbalances. The healing power of touch plays a crucial role in alleviating the compression of emotional turmoil.
This is why my practice at Thyme In Massage Chicago LLC, a black-owned massage acupuncture service in Lincoln Park, is dedicated to supporting individuals dealing with trauma and PTSD through massage and acupuncture. We understand the detrimental effects that trauma can have on the body and nervous system, disrupting homeostasis.
I provide a judgment-free, safe space where you can heal both internally through acupuncture and externally via massage therapy. I look forward to supporting you on your healing journey in the vibrant community of Chicago under the guidance of Dr. Yvette K. Clay.